Clayton “Jae” Toddy

Clayton “Jae” Toddy

Jul 9, 1979 – Jan 3, 2018

Survived by parents, Clayton and Gina Toddy; sister, Natalia; brother, Neal.





  • Ryan Stusse Posted January 4, 2018 7:09 pm

    I am so sorry to hear about Jae! He was sick a great guy and will be missed. Praying for comfort for his family

  • Craig DeDecker Posted January 4, 2018 7:39 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. I was Jae’s roommate at Iowa. He was a good friend to me.

  • Will and Tonya Meier Posted January 4, 2018 8:04 pm

    We want to send our condolences to the family. We are praying for all of you. God bless.

  • Bradley Benjamin Posted January 5, 2018 10:09 am

    It’s with a heavy heart that I write this. Jae lived across the hall from me at Hillcrest and we became great friends that year and it continued for the next few years. He was a special guy and some of my best memories at Iowa include him. Our lives took different paths and always wish we reconnected. Over the past 24 hours I’ve been able to share all those moments with those I keep in touch with. He may be gone but his memories will last forever. I pray for his family, friends, and all those touched by his kind heart. God bless.

  • Missy Christensen (Watterson Posted January 5, 2018 10:36 am

    I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Jae. I worked with him at Hy-Vee when we were in high school. He was one the sweetest guys I have ever met. Prayers to your family!

  • Adam Petersen Posted January 5, 2018 2:09 pm

    My deepest sympathies to the Toddy family. Jae was a great friend and, though we hadn’t been in contact for many years, I will always remember him as one of my closest growing up. May he find everlasting peace.

  • Debra Kuehl Posted January 5, 2018 2:13 pm

    Words cannot express my sorrow for your family and Jae’s friends. My heart is broken for you, and we will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.

  • Allen Burns Posted January 5, 2018 2:32 pm

    Jae was the brother I never had. He was the best man in my wedding and the best friend I ever had. His personality was one in a million and I am very blessed to have known him and privileged to have been a part of his life. Every memory I have of Jae involves someone laughing and smiling. I lost a part of me when I heard the news but Jae will never be forgotten. He was an amazing guy and an amazing friend. God bless Chip, Gina and family your in our thoughts and payers.

  • Carol Kohler Posted January 6, 2018 1:43 pm

    Dearest Gina,
    My deepest condolences to you and your family at the loss of your son. I will never forget your kindness towards me during the difficult time I experienced while working with you in the Dunes. Had we met during another time I know we would have been great friends. I have thought of you often since our time together. While we don’t understand losing our children, as it goes against the natural order of life, I do believe God has a plan and a purpose for each of our lives. My prayer is that you will feel comforted by His love, humbled by His grace and feel His loving arms around you as He weeps with you during this time of grief. I’ve listed my Email if you’d like to reach out one day.

  • Don & Barb Neron Posted September 6, 2018 9:13 pm

    We were shocked to hear the sad news of Jae’s passing. We will keep you in our prayers. SO SORRY. Love, Don & Barb Neron

  • Blaize Hite Posted April 12, 2019 1:16 am

    Jae was my brother. He was my friend. He helped me so much that he’ll never know. My heart is saddened to learn of his passing but he will always be a part of me. Love you my brotha. God bless.

  • Brian Fahs Posted August 19, 2019 2:08 pm

    Jae was one of the first friends I made at Jesuit high school during our freshman year. Although we lost touch soon after he moved/transferred schools, I will never forget the laughter and good times we shared as precocious young teenagers in a new environment. I did not realize Jae had passed until an old mutual friend mentioned to me earlier this year. My heart goes out to his family and my condolences for your loss. I only wish Jae knew how much he impacted my life & many others.

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