Connor J. Frillman

Connor J. Frillman

November 10, 1997 – September 16, 2019

Survived by mother, Sharon C. Friend; father, Mark J. Frillman; sisters: Amanda, Cassandra, and Alexandria Frillman; brothers, Zachary Frillman and Dean Wilson; girlfriend, Jessica Champion; grandparents, John and Judy Frillman; nieces: Izzy and Aria Friend and Carleigh Arneson; aunts and uncles, cousins, and friends.

The family will receive friends on Sunday, September 22nd from 2pm to 4pm at the West Center Chapel.  Memorials are suggested to the D.A.V. Center.



  • Lyndsey Pfeifer Posted September 17, 2019 4:21 pm

    Connor was one of a kind, my best friend.. I’m heartbroken I can’t imagine how the family feels. You’re all in my thoughts.

  • Jack Hooley Posted September 17, 2019 4:55 pm

    If you ever need anything no matter what it is, know I’m there to take care of it. Much love.

  • Juan Morales Posted September 17, 2019 5:00 pm

    May he rest peacefully, he will be missed.

  • Ashley Eriksen Posted September 17, 2019 6:42 pm

    He was amazing to me everytime I seen him the most kind hearted person I ever met!!! My prayers go out to everyone’s lifes he touched especially his families!!!! R.i.p connor 😢😭

  • Sonny Harwell Posted September 17, 2019 6:59 pm

    You were like a little brother to me hope you lay easy broski. Love ya.

  • Jessica Groff (Freeman) Posted September 17, 2019 8:42 pm

    Thinking of you all at this difficult time. Thoughts and prayers ❤️

  • Brenda harwell Posted September 17, 2019 9:11 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss he will truly be missed🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • Dean Wilson Posted September 17, 2019 9:45 pm

    Connor is the best gift god has given me, he was my brother through and through. The world lost one of its brightest lights but I know he will live on through all the people he loved. Rest In Peace brother… I’m glad I got to see you one last time.

  • Brianna Palladino Posted September 17, 2019 10:31 pm

    I’m truly sorry for your family’s loss your in my prayers

  • Sarah Jones Posted September 18, 2019 1:16 am

    My heart weighs a little heavier these days. Connor was such an outgoing, loving, optimistic kid. He was so full of life. Every person he met, he touched their life in some way. From the days where we would spend hours in my driveway talking to walking all around town with nothing to do and not a care that there wasn’t. He grew up to be such an amazing soul. So many memories, yet so little time. My most condolences to his family. My heart hurts for you and if there’s anything I can do, please let me know.

  • Jennifer Dieguez Posted September 18, 2019 7:09 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. I am a nurse and was one of the bystanders that helped the off-duty firefighter with resuscitation efforts on Connor immediately after his accident – prior to the arrival of fire/ambulance. Please know that he was surrounded by caring bystanders who were trying everything they could to save him. We were all praying for him and his loved ones during these efforts. I just wanted his family and friends to know that he was not alone.

    • Gina Vandenberg Posted September 18, 2019 6:27 pm

      Thank you so much……thanks for sharing this… happy to hear he was surrounded by love ❤️

  • Makenzi Carr Posted September 18, 2019 7:22 am

    Connor you were the funniest, simplest guy I knew. I’m so sorry things had to end this way. You were a good friend and I know your doing your thing in heaven right now. Rest in peace.

  • Alicin Carlson-Dollen Posted September 18, 2019 7:44 am

    Tragic, senseless loss. My heart breaks for my friend, Sharon, and her kids, as well as all of his family and friends. I have learned how much Conner was loved, liked and respected as I spread the word of his passing. He will be greatly missed. His light and love touched so many people. Sharon, you did good.

  • Austin lowry Posted September 18, 2019 8:34 am

    I loved this man like a brother, none of you may have heard of me but Connor and I worked at Applebee’s together and quit together the same night. I gave him rides home and almost anywhere he needed it. I taught him “What it do cookie boo?” And that’s how we greeted eachother. If I could say some words at his wake to say good bye I’d appreciate it.

  • Evelyn Elya Posted September 18, 2019 10:14 am

    I didn’t know you very well, you’ve been to my house a couple times. however you and my brother were the best of friends. I’m sorry he can’t comment here, or come to the funeral but i’m waiting for him to call me so i can tell him the news. We’re were an amazing person in his life and thank you for that, thanks for always being there for him and supporting him. Rest in Peace Connor, fly high man.

  • Deborah Dogba Posted September 18, 2019 10:42 am

    You surely touched many lives. I had no clue who it was when they took you in the ambulance as I was dropping my son off Prep; and yet I felt something when they drove pass me. Not until I got to work that I realized you were my lovely colleague Sharon’s son. May you rest in peace Connor. Sincere condolences, Sharon and family.

  • Anonymous Posted September 18, 2019 11:16 am

    So sorry for your loss

  • Kathy Anstine Posted September 18, 2019 11:18 am

    My heart goes out to my friend Sharon and her family and all of Connors friends. I am so sorry for your loss and will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

  • Rachel Huggins Posted September 18, 2019 3:35 pm

    Connor was wise beyond his years. He helped me process through a really tough time in my life. He always made me laugh. He will be missed.

  • Abby Boyd Posted September 18, 2019 3:59 pm

    I’m so sorry this has happened to you guys. My deepest condolences to family, friends, and loved ones. I am here if anyone needs to talk. My number is 4026376190. Positive healing vibes and thoughts, sent your way. You’re in my prayers.

  • Jen Johnson Posted September 18, 2019 8:54 pm

    My heart breaks for the Frillman family! I’m so sorry for your loss! I will always remember Connor’s vibrant smile…it lit up my 4th grade classroom every day when he walked in. Sending prayers of comfort during this difficult time!

  • Stephanie Dine Posted September 18, 2019 10:20 pm

    thinking of you, Connor. Ill miss you but see you again someday. God bless you mark and family. xo

  • Jason Hula Posted September 18, 2019 11:22 pm

    Amazing wit. Great taste in music and literature. Always there when I needed a friend. I don’t know how else to say how much I’m going to miss him.

  • Lyman Family Posted September 19, 2019 9:39 am

    Connor was an amazing young man and we are so sorry for your loss.

  • Bob and Charlene Thome Posted September 19, 2019 3:20 pm

    Our sincerest condolences to the family on your loss of a precious loved one.

  • Mimi Simmons Posted September 19, 2019 4:56 pm

    Connor, you will be missed. I have a Connor sized hole in my heart. Love you…Aunt Meemster

  • Jennifer Simmons Posted September 20, 2019 11:45 am

    My cousin Connor. He is so authentic and one of a kind. He never tried to be anything he wasn’t and never cared to try to please anyone. He was always is himself, what you see is what you get and if u dont like it, too bad for you. Smiling, funny and loved his family and friends. My aunt sharoni. She is the best. Never judging always, always, always trying to think of how to be there for her kids. I love you. Your a good Mom. Thinking of you all the time. Mandy is the hardest working mother of two I know. Cassie is so relatable. Zach cracks me up with his charming smile and is so comfortable to be around. Lexi such a cutie pie. I love you all so much. Thank you for being a part of my family. I’m so sorry for this enormous loss. He is watching over. I see you dragon fly. You will be missed every moment. But we are so blessed and honored to have lived with such a beautiful soul and free spirit.

  • Dennis Maaske Posted September 20, 2019 3:14 pm

    Mark, it has been such a long time . . . . We worked together when this guy came along. I am extremely sorry to read of Connor’s death . . . too much life to lose. May you all have good and lasting comfort and peace along the way, always.

  • LaMetria Mosley Posted September 20, 2019 7:57 pm

    Hi Connor. You don’t know me, and I don’t know you. However, I was one of the many people that stopped during the accident. I was on my way to drop my son off and I heard the sound that I dread hearing; a car crash. I rushed up to see I what happened and if you were okay. I wont lie, I broke down crying and hell I am holding back tears as I write this but I did everything I could to help the situation and I prayed that you would make it through. You and your loved ones have been weighing on my mind heavy all week. I just want to say that I will continue to lift your loved ones up in prayer – you will surely be missed and I will continue to say a prayer for
    You and your family. Rest In Peace Connor .

  • Samantha Hegarty Posted September 21, 2019 7:12 am

    I am so sorry. This is so terrible.

  • Jeanette Brezina Posted September 21, 2019 8:23 pm

    What words can be said. I am so sorry, Sharon and family of your loss. In reading all the other condolences, Connor touched the hearts of many people. I truly can’t imagine all the pain you feel at this time. May all the good memories and funny things Connor did bring sunshine to the cloudy time. For some reason, God made the decision to wrap his arms around Connor and take him home to continue his journey with his grandmother and aunt. Thinking of your always, Sharon, from the Lotto Lady.

  • Jacqueline D’Angelo Posted September 21, 2019 10:11 pm

    I was deeply saddened to hear the news of this tragic accident. I had the honor and privilege of teaching Connor during elementary school. He was a vibrant student, full of life, who had the most contagious smile and laugh. He never hesitated to stand up and be leader in our classroom, always offered a helping hand to students who maybe struggling, and strived daily to be his best self. I send my deepest condolences to the family during this difficult time. Connor will be deeply missed.

    • Jim Elizondo Posted September 22, 2019 11:59 am

      John,Judy,Mark. My deepest condolences. My thoughts are with you. May the Sunlight of the Spirit continue to shine on you at this time.

  • Kathy (Francl) Decker Posted September 22, 2019 8:54 am

    Sharon and family, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. There are really no words when a child is lost. My he Rest In Peace and may you be comforted in knowing that he was an amazing son. You and your whole family are in my prayers. The care and comfort from your family and friends will hold you up during the days ahead. God bless you all.

  • Janet Haney Posted September 22, 2019 9:42 am

    To all the family of Connor Frillman … My thoughts and prayers are for your family … May God walk with each of you and give you Courage and Strength during this very difficult time. I did not know Connor, however, knew Mark a little through his Grandparents John & Judy Frillman. They were the finest couple I could have known for many years. My deepest Sympathy. Peace, Jan

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