Frederick Lester Totten, Lt Col USAF (Ret)

Frederick Lester Totten, Lt Col USAF (Ret)

November 25, 1943- June 1, 2024

Frederick L Totten, of Omaha NE, passed away peacefully on June 1, 2024, at the age of 80.

Born in New York City to Leslie and Mildred, Fred moved eventually to San Diego, where he graduated from San Diego State University before joining the United States Air Force; retiring from the Air Force Reserve as a Lt. Colonel. He spent the entirety of his civilian career working for the Bell Systems beginning with Northwestern Bell and eventually Qwest when he retired. Fred was heavily involved in so many activities throughout his life, including many organizations within the Catholic church, including Eucharistic Ministry and choir, Toastmasters, American Legion, youth counseling, Intergenerational Orchestra, election volunteer, Camaro Club, bowling, Omaha Henry Doorly Zoo, quarterly donating blood to the American Red Cross for decades, and so much more. Fred will always be remembered for his infectiously positive outlook, love of life, and unyielding dedication to family, friends, and his beliefs.

A beloved son, brother, father, and grandfather, he is survived by his wife, Jane Totten; their son, James Totten, and his children, Logan and Emerson Totten; their daughter, Julie Totten, and her children, Collin and Veda Galligher; and his sister, Patricia Turner, and her children, John and Jack Turner.

VISITATION:  Friday June 7, 9:30-10:30AM, St. Stephen the Martyr Catholic Church, 16701 “S” Street, Omaha.

MASS OF CHRISTIAN BURIAL:  Friday June 7, 10:30 AM, St. Stephen the Martyr Catholic Church

INTERMENT WITH MILITARY HONORS:  Saturday, June 8, 10:00 AM, Resurrection Cemetery, Omaha.

To view live broadcasts of the Mass, please visit www.heafeyheafey.com and click the “Live Cast” button at the top of the home page.

9 Comments

  • Rhonda Richeson Posted June 3, 2024 5:17 pm

    Our sympathies to the whole family. We will miss one of our favorite neighbors.

  • Dr Pat Coyle-Rogers Posted June 4, 2024 12:42 pm

    So sorry to read of Fred’s death. Previous neighbors and members of the “ Babysitting Co-op. Condolence s to Jane and family.

  • Thijs Rhyne Posted June 5, 2024 5:32 am

    Sending my deepest condolences to Fred’s family and friends. I will miss his light terribly. I tried to write much more, but we have a tight limit on characters here. Let that not detract from the impact he had in my life. He will be missed.

  • Scott Schuetz Posted June 5, 2024 7:18 am

    So sorry to hear of Fred’s passing. Fred was an asset to our Contemporary Christian Music group at MOQ, and he was a great guy! He and Jane joined when we were in dire need of vocal talent. All those years of Tuesday night practices, I enjoyed his company. Rest in peace, sir!

  • Earmon (Butch) Wilcher Jr Posted June 5, 2024 10:46 am

    Condolences to the family of Fred. I am a member of the Intergenerational Orchestra of Omaha. I always looked forward to hearing what Fred’s solo would be for the upcoming season. It was always a tune that would remind many of us of our younger days. He always sang with enthusiasm and love. I will truly miss Fred. God will have another member of his heavenly choir.

  • Carolyne Jordan Posted June 5, 2024 4:41 pm

    I too am a member of the Intergeneration Orchestra and have sung with Fred since he joined. I will miss him greatly and the songs he loved and sang so well. He always was telling me about how much he enjoyed his children. I could see how he loved his family. A joyful person, I enjoyed knowing him. Condolences to Jane and their family.

  • Craig A Kruse Posted June 5, 2024 9:07 pm

    We are sorry for your loss, and will pray for God’s comforting hand on the family as you grieve. I worked with Fred at Northwestern Bell/US West for several years, and always appreciated his willingness to lend a hand. I am sure that he will be missed by many.

  • Linda Kirshenbaum Posted June 6, 2024 1:39 pm

    I’m am so sorry to hear about the loss of Fred My team and I had bowled with him and Jane for quite awhile. He was always so kind and friendly. He was so so good in caring for Jane. May god bless them . He will never be forgotten a true gentlemen. ❤️.

  • Kim Francavilla Posted June 10, 2024 10:54 am

    I am so sorry to hear of Fred’s passing, and even more sorry that I missed the services. My condolences to Janie and Jim & Julie. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

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