Jane M. Schuyler

Jane M. Schuyler

March 14, 1951-September 20, 2023

Jane Marie Schuyler of Omaha, NE  passed away suddenly at her home on Wednesday, September 20, 2023. Born on March 14, 1951, she was adopted by Joe and Fern Dellere of Omaha, along with her sister and best friend, Nancy.

Jane was preceded in death by her parents, Joe and Fern Dellere. She is survived by her husband, Tom; children, Robert (Carrie), Shanna Schneiderwind (William), Joseph (Heather), Sarah Farber (Justin).

Jane loved many things in life, but most of all she loved her husband Tom. They were wed on October 15, 1971. Jane and Tom enjoyed travelling the world together.  They were the ultimate role models for their children to witness a wonderful marriage.

Jane loved her children. She always answered the call when her phone rang and it was one of her children calling to catch up. She loved to know the details of their day to day, and to hear how they were doing.

Jane loved her 10 grandchildren and they loved her. She enjoyed spoiling them with birthday goodies and sending them cards with their age matched in dollars on the inside. Her grandchildren loved to visit for the holidays and seeing the huge displays of decorations that she would put out. She would often FaceTime them to catch up on their lives.

Jane loved to cook. Amassing an enormous collection of cookbooks and impressive cookware over the years. She delighted in planning and curating extraordinary meals for her family and putting on a display of her phenomenal dishes.

Jane loved to garden. She tended to her garden with love and grew her own veggies and spices to cook with. She had what almost felt like a secret garden behind the home with well loved trees, bushes, and flowers for all to take in their beauty.

Jane loved her dogs, Finn and Stella, and her kitty “Kitty”. They would follow her all over the house as they were as loyal to her as she was to them.

She passed in the home that she built and loved. We will all miss her more than words can ever express. We know she was greeted in heaven by her adoring parents, Joe and Fern.

Visitation: Monday, September 25th, at Saint Wenceslaus Catholic Church, 15353 Pacific Street, Omaha, at 10:00 a.m., followed by a Mass of Christian Burial: at 11:00 a.m. Lunch to follow Mass.


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  • Annie & Eric Bruner Posted September 22, 2023 1:18 pm

    Bob, Carrie and family – we are so very sorry to hear about your incredible loss. She may have left this world, but she has not left you! She was obviously very special to her family and friends.. her spirit will live on in you, every holiday and every special occasion. God bless all of you and my God’s perpetual light shine upon her!

  • Katie Smith Posted September 22, 2023 9:57 pm

    So very sorry for your loss.

  • Gail Holling Posted September 23, 2023 10:51 am

    Sarah and family-
    Gg and I send you all our deepest sympathies on your Moms passing- keep her memories close to your heart- they will bring you comfort. May she rest in peace

  • Phil and Ginna Bruning Posted September 23, 2023 3:08 pm

    Dear Tom and Family,
    We were so sorry to hear about Jane. We have very fond memories of Colorado skiing.. Our prayers are with you and your family. We remember her as happy and fun loving

  • Marc Jones Posted September 24, 2023 6:41 am

    To my Schuyler family,

    My deepest condolences of the loss of your matriarch. I have always admired the incredible bond of your family. Jane was truly the glue that held it together. I can see her influence on each of your families and I am sure that loving bond will carry on. I love you all.

  • Susan Gregory and Tom Gregory Posted September 24, 2023 3:03 pm

    So shocked and saddened for you, Tom, and the family. Sending love and hugs and prayers for comfort from all the love she blessed you with. Tom and Sue Gregory

  • Craig, Bonnie, Reagan, and Deacon Farber Posted September 24, 2023 6:22 pm

    To Sarah and the entire Schuyler family,

    Words cannot express the pain and sadness that we feel for you and your family. We extend our deepest condolences to all of you and please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Sending all of our love during this very difficult time.

  • Claire Connolly Michalec Posted September 27, 2023 10:19 am

    To Shanna and all the Schuylers
    What a positive force your mom was
    I’m so sorry to hear of her passing- a tremendous loss for you all. She was influential in the lives of many a Gross high school and field club kid!

  • Mary Dellere Dodd Posted October 1, 2023 11:34 am

    My Dad, Nick was an older brother to Joe. Nick died at 61 in 1969 and he was the glue that kept many of the relatives connected! In the early days we would see the folks in Omaha over Thanksgiving! I think Dad loved Fern’s cooking and we loved seeing our cousins, Nancy and Jane! What fun we had in the snow in Omaha! My Uncle Joe’s family would come to visit the Manhattan Dellere’s in the heat of summer in Kansas! Those are such wonderful memories! Jane was filled with laughter and had that mischievous smile of hers!
    Our family of six so regrets not getting to know your family!
    We send our deepest sympathy to your loving family!
    Frank and Mary Dodd, Regan, Ryan, Reilly and Rustin

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