Jeffrey Gordon Seitzinger

Jeffrey Gordon Seitzinger

December 3, 1963 – March 4, 2020


He is survived by parents, Lyle and Sherma Seitzinger; siblings: Karman DeLuca (Paul), Krystal Seitzinger, and Jayson Seitzinger; nieces and nephew: Kyla DeLuca, Cassie King, Nickie King, and Trey King; close family friend, Christy Bechtel; and many other loving family and friends.

The nationwide ruling says no more than 10 persons shall gather in one location.  The MEMORIAL SERVICE scheduled for Jeff Seitzinger on Saturday, March 22nd is cancelled.  Please continue to share Jeff’s stories with each other and us.  We will be continuing to celebrate Jeff’s life.  Sadly, from the Lyle and Sherma Seitzinger family.  Memorials will be directed by the family.






  • Anna Gepson Posted March 6, 2020 3:25 pm

    Jeff was one of my oldest and dearest friends. My love and condolences to the family.

  • Ron Smith Posted March 6, 2020 6:11 pm

    I’m so sad to hear of Jeff’s passing. I have many good memories of teenage years with Jeff and rest of the Fort Calhoun Pioneers. Prayers for the Seitzinger family.

  • Tracey Hsusman Wirthlin Posted March 6, 2020 6:40 pm

    My heart aches ! Jeff and so rode the bus together for several year. I remember his smile, his energy and thoughtfulness to others. This is such a loss! My heart goes out to the Seitzinger’s.

  • Tracey Hausman Wirthlin Posted March 6, 2020 6:43 pm

    My heart is heavy within sadness for the Seitzinger family. We rode the bus, had lunch and many study halls together. Jeff your heart was so kind!

  • Dee Caniglia Posted March 6, 2020 7:03 pm

    So sorry to hear of Jeff’s passing.

  • Debbie O’Dell Posted March 6, 2020 7:08 pm

    I am so very sorry to hear of Jeff’s passing, he was a wonderful man and I was proud to know him. My love and prayers to each of you for peace in your hearts and wonderful memories to carry you through each and everyday. My love, Debbie.

  • John Meahl Posted March 6, 2020 7:24 pm

    So sorry to learn of. Jeff’s passing. Condolences to all the Seitzinger family

  • Val VanDegrift Posted March 6, 2020 7:54 pm

    Jeff was my best & dearest friend! I’m so sad! My deepest condolences to Lyle, Sherma, and the entire Seitzinger family!

  • Cheri Kersey Posted March 6, 2020 8:15 pm

    My heart breaks at this great lose of Cousin Jeff… Too young too soon. Sending lots of prayers and hugs to my Seitzinger family. Never forget all the great memories…

  • Lori Hardin Posted March 6, 2020 8:22 pm

    I am heart heavy and so very saddened to hear of Jeff’s passing. He was such a wonderfully positive and loving person. Prayers for all of you Uncle Lyle, Aunt Sherm, Karm, Krystal, Jason and nieces and nephews. Jeff will be remembered fondly.

  • Bridget Townley Olson Posted March 6, 2020 8:23 pm

    So sorry to hear of Jeff’s passing. Many happy memories with Jeff and movie nights at the Seitzinger household.

  • Mary Ann Kill Posted March 6, 2020 8:34 pm

    I am so saddened to hear of Jeff’s passing. I remember him well growing up in Maple Village in the 1970’s & then being reunited with him in college . I would see him on campus & hewas always kind & friendly and absolutely hilarious! My condolences to the Seitzinger family & all of Jeff’s friends!

  • William Zalaquett Posted March 6, 2020 9:12 pm

    I’ve always believed that God calls the best of us first because they don’t need to be among us any longer, Jeff was called by the Lord before we thought he would be, he will be missed but his love and kindness will live forever in our memories. Until we meet again in eternal life.

  • Jennifer Mace Posted March 6, 2020 11:27 pm

    Lyle and Sherma, you and the family are in our thoughts during this time. Hugs and prayers from afar.

  • Jean & Jack Rosenfield Posted March 7, 2020 11:49 am

    We are so sorry. We loved spending time with Jeff and will miss his smiling face and the happy times.. Our prayers are with you all at this time.
    Jean, Jack and David

  • Jim and Patrice Urban Posted March 7, 2020 2:21 pm

    Patrice and I send ❤️and condolences to all family, and friends. We also pray for all of you, comfort from your grief, and we pray for Jeff to Rest In Peace with his God. 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️

  • Sue Ketzler Posted March 7, 2020 4:12 pm

    So sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers are with your family. ❤️

  • Patrick Shelley Posted March 7, 2020 7:32 pm

    My deepest condolences to the Seitzinger family. I’m at a loss now.. Jeffrey was my closest friend. Good bye my friend . You will be greatly missed.

  • Mary Jeanne Fitzgerald Posted March 8, 2020 9:09 am

    I have such fond memories of Jeff. My heart and prayers are with his family and friends. I am so sorry for your loss!

  • Tim Lewis Posted March 8, 2020 12:31 pm

    I am so sad of the passing of my dearest friend. I have known Jeff since the 8th grade we had so many wonderful times together. My heart goes out to Lyle, Sherma, and the entire Sietzinger family.

  • Carol Stratbucker Nielsen Posted March 8, 2020 7:12 pm

    My deepest sympathy to the Seitzinger family. Many great memories from growing up together!

  • Judy McLeod Posted March 9, 2020 7:42 am

    I am at a loss for words right now! Jeffrey and I worked together for many many years.on many projects! He was most definitely the best Project Manager to work here at Starwood/LNR! I just loved how very organized he always was! Things will not be the same around here, and I will miss him terribly! My sincere Condolences to Lyle and Sherma, to his siblings, nieces and nephews, to his friends all over, he spoke about you all every day! RIP my sweet and generous friend, until we meet again! “What we have once enjoyed, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes part of us.”

  • Ana M Castro Posted March 9, 2020 8:17 am

    Know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Jeffrey filled our lives with happiness and sweet feelings that will stay in our hearts forever.

  • Alicia Ali Posted March 9, 2020 12:07 pm

    My deepest condolences goes out to the Seitzinger family and my prayers are with you all. Jeffrey regularly shared with us, his trips spent with his family, whether it was a special outing, funny moments, or just home for the holidays. I find myself remembering the meetings, and so many training’s spent with Jeffrey at Starwood/LNR, filled with so much laughter in it all. That I will miss the most. My heart is heavy and I hope everyone finds comfort and strength during this difficult time, remembering his laughter, his smile, and his kindness. ‘Memories are a gift to treasure, ours of you, will last forever’- xoxo

  • Gladys Nieves Posted March 9, 2020 2:08 pm

    My heart is so sad. RIP Jeffrey. I enjoyed Concur training, and will miss your beautiful smile. My heartfelt condolences to the family and friends … blessings to all.

  • Eric Abbott Posted March 9, 2020 4:23 pm

    I am saddened by this loss. My heart goes out to the family. Keep Jeff’s memory burning bright.

  • Mary/Ralph Perkins Posted March 9, 2020 6:44 pm

    We are so sorry about Jeff’s passing….our thoughts and prayers go out to you all.

  • Roger Rath Posted March 9, 2020 11:13 pm

    Jeff, Tim and I have spent a life of friendship. Often a friendship of twists and turns but Miraculously leading back to each other. My thoughts, memories and especially Jeff’s Laughter are what’s fresh in my mind. Bless You the Entire Seitzinger Family!

  • Todd and Tina Graham Posted March 10, 2020 6:14 am

    We hold your family in our thoughts and prayers. Todd and I send our deepest sympathy and condolences to your family.

  • Andy (Vuko) Arbie Posted March 10, 2020 8:25 am

    I am so sorry to hear of Jeff’s passing. Great memories of him at those North Hills Hunt Camps so many moons ago. Prayers for peace and comfort for your family and eternal rest for Jeff. God bless.

  • The Martinsons Posted March 10, 2020 12:53 pm

    So sorry for your loss

  • Jennifer Fernandez Posted March 10, 2020 1:15 pm

    My deepest condolences to Jeffrey’s family. As you have already heard, Jeffrey was so proud of all of you and he shared pictures and stories of his visits, even including the John Deere!! I worked with Jeffrey for many years, and he was not only a valued colleague but a good friend to all of us at Starwood. May you find comfort in knowing that his brilliant smile, his infectious laugh, and his beautiful soul will live on in our hearts and hopefully be reflected in our actions. He was the epitome of a life well lived.

  • Cindy Osborne Posted March 10, 2020 2:06 pm

    Jeff has been one of my most special friends for the past 15 years. From the first day we discovered we were living across the hall from each other on South Beach, we have loved spending time together – days trips to the keys, antique show and art festivals days, and even entire days hanging out together virtually, sending funny texts back and forth and laughing our hearts out. We also spent many hours talking about real issues in each other’s lives, letting each other be seen and known accurately. He was a treasure of a friend. I miss him terribly and carry him with me every day for the rest of my life.

  • Alicia Greene Posted March 11, 2020 9:53 am

    I am truly sorry for your loss. I would like to offer your family my deepest and most sincere condolences during this difficult time. I share in your grief at our sad loss. My heart hurts at the loss, Jeffrey was a wonderful man with an amazing heart. He was such a great friend and I so enjoyed our many years working together at Starwood/LNR (even with me in the Charlotte office) and the wonderful friendship we shared. His laughter was infectious, his smile genuine and his humor was uniquely Jeffrey. His free spirit and love for life, and his love for those he cared about most always shined thru him, Rest easy “my squeaky wheel”…what an imprint your footprints have left on our hearts. Heaven gained one absolutely amazing angel, a day won’t go by that I won’t think of you but I know you are watching over us all. Goodbyes are not forever. Goodbyes are not the end. They simply mean I’ll MISS YOU until we meet again. My love to you always my sweet friend.

  • Beverly Hernandez Posted March 11, 2020 2:19 pm

    I am truly heartbroken and saddened. Jeffrey was not just my colleague, but my dear friend. I am just grateful that I have had many happy memories of Jeffrey and that we had some good laughs throughout the years. I pray that God will grant you and your family the strength as you go thru this most difficult time. My most sincere condolences.

  • The HARTS Posted March 12, 2020 6:46 am

    We are so saddened by the loss of

    We are so saddened by the loss of Jeff. What great times the Hart family had the years we lived as neighbors. We are praying for your family.


  • Shawn Schmidt Posted March 12, 2020 3:10 pm

    Rest In Peace Jeffrey. Sorry we didn’t get to get to know each other more. I’ve often heard your name over the years and know you had a great group of friends who spoke highly of you. My prayers are with you now.

  • Cathie Kornacki Posted March 13, 2020 8:23 pm

    Our sincere condolences. Rob and Cathie Kornacki, Platte City, MO

  • Troy Tinsley Posted March 14, 2020 9:28 am

    I am so sad to lose my dear friend. My phone has gone silent and I miss Jeff everyday. My heart goes out to Lyle, Sherma and family. We will all keep Jeff in our hearts forever.

  • Cindy King Posted March 15, 2020 4:18 pm

    I was so blessed to have gotten to know Jeffrey after visiting our gallery in the Keys over the past 12 years. Jeffrey is just one of those beautiful and rare people who brings light and laughter to anyone he makes contact with. I use the present tense because that kind of magical presence never goes away after death.
    And as my heart goes out to his family, friends and coworkers just thinking about him right now still makes me smile. Your work here is done Dear Jeffrey. Enjoy the rest of your journey and we will meet up again on the other side.

  • Rabindra Das Posted March 16, 2020 2:40 am

    I was lucky to get an opportunity work with Jeffrey for last 7-8 years.
    I am going to miss his whatsApp calls. He used to send me beautiful photographs from his balcony.

    I had a tremendous respect for his work ethics, clarity and simplicity.
    Over these years, I had found a great friend in Jeffrey.
    My deepest condolences. May his soul rest in peace.

  • Paula Klawitter Roberts Posted March 16, 2020 5:49 pm

    I was so sad to hear of Jeff’s passing. Our families had lots of fun times in high school and Longville MN. Sending lots of hugs. Rest In Peace Jeff, Sunshine!

  • Trish and David Lanphier Posted March 18, 2020 9:30 am

    Lyle and Sherma,

    We are so very sad for you. Truly terrible losing a child. We send good thoughts your way, of sunny days, kids and horses all about, and Jeff always helpful and kind.

    Trish and David

  • Diane (Dyas) Campbell Posted March 18, 2020 10:17 am

    Our sincere condolences at this time of sorrow. We had such great memories of our families together. Peace be with you and your family. The Dyas family.

  • Beth and Mark Johnston Posted March 19, 2020 12:36 pm

    So sorry for your loss, Karman , Paul, Kyla , Lyle and Sherma and your whole family.

  • Johnny Guidry Posted April 2, 2020 11:31 am

    Sending my love and light to the Seitzingers and to all of us who were friends of Jeffrey. One of a kind, full of love, and a role model for me in many aspects. I will miss my friend and confidant.

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