John Edwin Ingraham
July 9, 1956 – September 15, 2024
John Edwin Ingraham passed away on Sunday, September 15, 2024, with his family by his side. John was born to Edwin LeRoy Ingraham and Vivian June Lowell Ingraham, July 9, 1956. He was raised in Omaha with his three brothers. He graduated from Benson High School, where he met his future wife, Teresa. Their love story began during a winter storm, when John, then a high school student, walked Teresa home in the snow. He continued to walk Teresa from school to her home two miles back and forth every day, despite only living a block away. Their love only grew, and they married at Kountze Lutheran Church on June 18, 1976.
John was deeply passionate about cars and music. His love for music was evident throughout his life. He was a dedicated member of his high school choir and Studio Singers. His devotion to music continued throughout his life, particularly in his involvement with the choir at Dundee Presbyterian Church.
John and Teresa had three sons. He was a devoted father, husband, and grandfather. John found immense joy in his role as a Grandpa. One of the highlights of his life was spending time with his grandchildren. John was the epitome of a loving and dedicated grandpa, often going to any of their activities and sports that he could attend. He worked as an Emergency Medical Technician Ambulance (EMTA), Pressure Points and Control Tactics Instructor, Sexual Harassment and Rape Prevention Instructor, and worked at UNMC for 45 years as an EMTA Security Sergent. John touched many lives throughout his many adventures and had many stories to share, such as meeting Richard Simmons for his Sweatin’ with the Oldies tour, Mr. T., and receiving a Vice-Presidential Challenge Coin from Vice
President Joe Biden.
John was known for his love of church, cars, and “dad jokes.” He often worked on cars with his brother, Jeff, since they were young. He owned a 35’ Dodge and 58’ Imperial that were often joked about, meaning more to him than his family (except his grandkids). He was an Eagle Scout, Scout Master, and member of the Order of the Arrow.
John was preceded in death by his parents, Edwin LeRoy Ingraham and Vivian June Lowell Ingraham; and brother, Richard Ingraham; and grandparents. John is survived by his wife, Teresa; his brothers, Lee (Therese), and Jeff (Pam); and his sister-in-law, Brenda Friedman Ingraham; sons: Marc (Jackie), J.C. (Sarah), Chris (Rebecca); grandchildren: Charlie Carlson, Jude, Cecilia, Colin, Archie, Vaida, Eli, and Georgia; and numerous other family members and friends, who will remember him fondly for his kindness, humor, and unwavering faith.
VISITATION: Friday, September 20, 2024, 5:00-7:00PM at West Center Chapel, 7805 West Center Road, Omaha.
FUNERAL SERVICE: Saturday, September 21, 11:00AM, Dundee Presbyterian Church, 5312 Underwood Avenue, Omaha.
INTERMENT and GRAVESIDE SERVICE: Forest Lawn Cemetery, Saturday, September 21, at 9:30 AM.
In lieu of flowers, memorials will be directed by the family
John’s legacy of love, music, and community will continue to inspire all who knew him.
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26 Comments
My thoughts and prayers are with Teresa and the family. He exhibited grace under pressure and was always concerned for others. He was an example for us all. John was one of my favorite coworkers at UNMC. He will be missed.
I sang with John at Benson highschool. He was a kind considerate young man with a great voice.
I am so sorry to hear of John’’s passing. I met John in 1980 when I worked at UNMC and would see him almost on a daily basis and he would greet me with the brightest smile and it truly made my day for 29 years until I left UNMC. He was the most kind, generous, humble and genuine human being I have ever known and I was so lucky to call him my friend.. He will be truly missed. He was one of a kind. Prayers for all of you during this time.
Jeff and family,
We were sorry to hear of your loss. What a great legacy he left for your families. We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
I’m sorry for your loss of John. I grew up going to Lowe Avenue Presbyterian Church with the family. My husband, Keith, worked with John at Nebraska Medicine. He was a great guy!
Jeff, Im so sorry for your loss. Family is everything right. I know hiw it feel to be on the young end of a bunch of siblings.
God Bless, Take Care, Denny
I was deeply saddened to hear about John passing away. I met John while working at UNMC with his wife Teresa over 20 years ago. John was an amazing guy, very kind and can talk to you for hours. I was blessed to have met John and his family. Please know I am praying for your family during this painful time.
Theresa Grutel
My deepest condolences to Teresa and the entire family of John. I knew John since I was first employed at the Medical Center. He was also a member of my wedding party in 1979, always a good friend and colleague. I considered John one of my closest friends and confidant. He surely will be missed by all who knew him. May God bless his family in this time of sadness.
I am proud to have called John my friend. This one is for you my friend. Why couldn’t the Dad see the Rhinoceros his son said was hiding in a tree??? His son replied because the rhinoceros was very good at it.
We remember fondly the Ingram family while living in Omaha and attending Dundee Presbyterian Church. Our Christian Couples young adult group was our family during that time. We are so sorry for the loss of John. He and Theresa were both very talented musicians and strong Christians. As Stephanie Myers said he’s singing with the angels in heaven now. What joy that brings to all of us. Keeping you all in our prayers.
My heart breaks as I realize the loss that we are experiencing. Jesus has gained. I so appreciated singing with John in choir and the trip we took together to Albania. He made me laugh with his silly jokes and was truly a friend who enjoyed cars as much as I did. Prayers for comfort to the family. May God rap his arms around you.
John and Theresa were family to me they allowed me to use their car to take my driving test when I was 16 drove me to my very first concert and told me what to expect they weren’t kidding and John had a great since of humor and always had a great thing to say at the right time Theresa was the best sister to me I remember being part of they’re life the day Mark was born and the day John got his job at UNMC my heart and prayers go out to Theresa and the family John made the world a better place now heaven has another special angel
My condolences to Teresa and family; also to everyone who were in John’s wide sphere of friends and colleagues. John was always upbeat, willing to help, and sincerely caring. “Hello” and “Have a good day” was his usual greeting. I knew we were in great hands if John was involved. He and his friendship will be missed by many .
My condolences. I met John when I started in NHS 25 years ago! He was ALWAYS such a nice guy!!!
So very sorry for your loss. I met John in 1990 while working at UNMC. John was always smiling and truly enjoyed every day. John was a true inspiration to many people. I feel blessed to have known him. Teresa and family, you are in my prayers.
John was such a blessing. He would brighten any day with a gentle story or one of his famous corny jokes. That infectious smile, the kind nature, the way he made everyone feel special; that was John. He was an honest faithful loving family man who had lucky grandkids. He sincerely gave his warmth while he suppressed the pain of the last years. He was beloved by many. If I get to see John again, I’ll know that I made it to heaven.
My sincere condolences go out to John’s family and friends. I worked along John for 19 years in UNMC Security and learned alot from him along the way….as an officer and a person. He was the kindest hearted person I have met. Very supportive of all around him and a role model to look up to. I will miss his jokes, laughter and smile. He made our department and world a nuch better place. He handled his illness with such grace and courage. RIP searg….
Prayers out for Teresa and family. John had a kind heart it was a privilege to know him and to work with him, he love to share his knowledge with us, and he always had our backs. John you will be missed very much see you again one day my friend!
All our lives are emptier with John’s passing. To know John and Teresa are to know two incredible people. John’s faith, humor, love of life, people and God has always been an example for us. Both John and Teresa have the gift that if you know them you feel like your one of their best friends. Whether at church, misssion trips, or a meal with them, you always felt loved. John continues to share his gift with familly and friends he has joined in the heavenly realm. Jesus took him to his special place. Well done good and faithful servant. You will be missed until we can join with you. Teresa you are in our prayers as well as the prayers of countless others. May God uphold you and family in your time of grief.
Heaven gained a truly good man, who will be missed greatly by those he left behind. 🙏🏾 Prayers of peace & comfort to those lucky enough to have known him!
Teresa & family’s I worked with John @ UNMC. Then ended up being in WPC Club. Beautiful friend that will be greatly missed. Heaven has gained a true angel. Our heartfelt sympathy to you and praying God keeps you in his arms thru this difficult time
Thought and prayer to the Ingraham family and to those who worked with John. John was a great man and a great leader at UNMC. I had learned a ton from John and took his spirt of loving and caring with me. John is missed deeply and heaven has gained the best angel it could have. Rest easy John until we meet again.
My heart goes out to our community today. We have lost a a wounded human being. I am honored to call him my friend. We shared 46 years of our lives. I learned so much from John. I will always keep those fond memories in my heart.
Thoughts to land prayers to John’s entire fam. Love you all.
We send our love to Teresa and John’s family. John and teresa not only raised a fine family, but helped us when our boys were young. Warmth, integrity, humor-and faith are hallmarks of this remarkable couple, and John was a vibrant, caring man who made this world a better place.
I am so saddened to hear of John’s death. I worked with him for over 40 years as an RN in the Emergency Dept where we rely heavily on the security department. He was so kind and patient no matter what the situation was.and always had a smile with a daily corny joke. He will surely be missed.My deepest sympathy to his family.
I am sending Teresa & family my sincere sympathy. John was known by so many for his obvious happiness, friendliness & dedication to UNMC & coworkers. Wishing you peace & loving memories.
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