Thomas P. Lalley

Thomas P. Lalley

October 31, 1946 – May 2, 2020


Preceded in death by parents, Michael and Adelaide; brother, Mick; and sister, Peggy.  Survived by Mary H. Lalley; son, Matthew J. Lalley; daughter, Maggie Snyder; grandchildren, Adelaide and Eveleen Snyder; brother, Timothy (Pat); nieces; nephews; other relatives, and friends.

VISITATION (following CDC guidelines): Tuesday, May 5th from 4pm to 7pm, with Family VIGIL SERVICE at 7pm at the West Center Chapel.  MASS OF CHRISTIAN BURIAL: Wednesday, May 6th, 10am at Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church.  INTERMENT: Calvary Cemetery.  Memorials to the American Cancer Society.

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  • Birdie Posted May 4, 2020 9:59 am

    I was shocked and saddened to hear of Tom’s passing. He came into my workplace almost every day and always had a smile to brighten our days. He will be missed by all of us.

  • Kris Foster Posted May 4, 2020 10:56 am

    I worked with the sweetest, kindest guy named Tom. He would always go out of his way to help anyone. He was the perfect floral delivery man. He was a good friend. I know you will miss him so much, as so many of us will too. He went quickly, which is hard for us who lost him, but the best way he would have wanted. My sincere sympathies to you his family who he loved dearly.

  • Bill Kucirek Posted May 4, 2020 2:12 pm

    R.I.P. Tommy, I don’t remember seeing you without a smile on your face. Last time I saw you was at Hy-Vee. Same old Tommy, cheerful, happy with that big smile flashing.

  • John F. Smolen Posted May 4, 2020 5:32 pm

    Tom was a really good guy when we were at Prep together., He will be in our prayers. The good Lord has recalled another angel, who will be looking out for all of his family and friends.

  • Tom Abboud Posted May 4, 2020 9:51 pm

    I remember the great times with Tommy at Theodores Bar & Grill, especially the time when I was about 12 yrs old, I brought my mechanical horse race machine, had all my uncles betting on the races. Tommy came over and handed me a $50 bill, and said I’ll take this over now. I was ecstatic, $50….I’m sure he cleaned up that day. I brought that up to him about a year ago on FB Messenger, and he remembered it vividly…even asked if I still had the machine.

  • Jim Paladino Posted May 5, 2020 9:32 am

    Tim and family, my deepest sympathy for your loss. Many great memories from our childhood. You are all in my prayers

  • Corky and Debi Haley Posted May 5, 2020 3:13 pm

    Tommy was a dear friend for over 40;years. You never saw him without a smile on his face. We will ,is him terribly. Our love and condolences to his family.

  • Angela Capellupo Posted May 5, 2020 3:34 pm

    Some of my fondest Tommy moments are working at Harwood Services. What a crew we had! Send some of that laughter and smiles down on us Tommy! Miss you already!

  • Teri Marek Posted May 5, 2020 4:10 pm

    I only knew Tommy from my daily trips to Panera for coffee. Tommy, along with his group of friends, were the unofficial Panera welcoming crew. I am so sad for your loss. He made an impact on many people and will be so missed.

  • Larry Shestak Posted May 5, 2020 6:58 pm

    R.I.P. Tommy. God bless you and all the family and friends.

  • Earl Thompson Posted May 5, 2020 7:06 pm

    Im gonna miss ya buddy!
    Deepest Sympathy
    Love RedDogg

  • Steve Amos Posted May 6, 2020 9:00 am

    So sorry for your loss. Friends including Del and myself will miss seeing Tom at our morning get togethers at Panera Bread and at Hy Vee always with his friendly smile & a hello.

  • Bev J Busenbark Posted May 6, 2020 9:18 am

    My prayers are with you all.

  • Gina Pietramale Posted May 6, 2020 12:48 pm

    I am very sorry for your loss.

  • George Mills Posted May 6, 2020 1:05 pm

    Tommy would agree. Half you life you struggle. Half your life you fly. Half your life making trouble. Half your life making it right. One day I’m the exception. Most days I’m just like most. Some days I’m heading in the right direction. And some days I ain’t even close. Rest In Peace my good friend.

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