Virginia Mae Budka

Virginia Mae Budka

July 25, 1938–September 11, 2022

Preceded in death by husband, Richard. Survived by her 4 children: Peter Budka, Michael Budka (Susan), David Budka (Dana), and Ann Newton (Chris); and 6 grandchildren: Alexander Budka, Steven Budka, William Budka, Thomas Budka, Alexander Newton, and Vivian Newton.

An only child, Virginia was born in Omaha. She had close ties to rural Nebraska because her adored parents, Rudolph and Sylvia Kuzelka, were from the Czech community of Clarkson. But a country cousin described Virginia as a “sunny city kid.” She loved to socialize all her life.

From an early age she took piano lessons and studied with the noted instructor Cecil Berryman. Later in life, she was a church organist. She graduated from Mercy High School and Creighton University where she was president of the local chapter of Alpha Sigma Alpha, the national social sorority. She was involved in many other college student activities, like the campus radio station and debate team.

After college, she worked at KETV, then Omaha National Bank where she became editor of the internal monthly news magazine.

A lucky blind date to a bowling banquet resulted in marriage 6 months later with Richard Budka on October 24, 1964, at St. Patrick’s Church in Omaha.

After marriage, she became a teacher at St. Thomas More School, then a substitute teacher with Omaha Public Schools, and finally a GED instructor with Nebraska Adult Education.  She enjoyed interacting with students of all ages and cared about their progress. She was equally concerned and active in the upbringing of her children. Although she couldn’t teach any of her children to play the piano as well as she could, she was supportive of their individual pursuits. She was fond of her grandchildren, always happy to see them and hear what they were doing.

Although she could be content gardening at home, one of her lifelong joys was traveling. In her later years, she traveled more—both abroad and domestically. She visited most of the States, made numerous trips to Europe, and even went to further destinations like Japan, China, India, South Africa, Israel, and Peru. She liked to learn and socialize wherever she went.

FAMILY RECEIVES FRIENDS: FRI, September 16, 9:30 a.m. followed by MASS OF CHRISTIAN BURIAL: 10:30 a.m. all at St. Thomas More Catholic Church, 4804 Grover St. INTERMENT: Calvary Cemetery. For memorials the family prefers Masses or to the Open Door Mission.



  • Fr. Jim Clifton, SJ Posted September 13, 2022 7:13 am

    Peter and Mike: I remember you well from your time at Prep, which overlapped with my years there as a scholastic. I am sorry to hear of the death of your mother; I remember her as so interested in everything, and with warmth and charm. I will remember her this weekend at Mass and ask God to bring strength and comfort to you and all your family.

  • Sr Mary Ann Budka Posted September 14, 2022 5:33 am

    Rest in peace, Virginia

  • 1st District Public Defender’s Office, Chaska, Minnesota Posted September 14, 2022 9:26 am

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of loss. We were sad to hear about the passing of your mother and offer you our heartfelt support and friendship. A memorial in memory of your mother has been made to the Open Door Mission.

    In sympathy – 1st District Public Defender’s Office

  • Jim & Greta Weisman Posted September 14, 2022 5:33 pm

    Dear Mike and Family: our hearts ache for you. Wish we could have known her better. Sorry you have to go through this pain of loosing her so quickly. Sincere condolences. J & G

  • Maureen Monahan Posted September 14, 2022 7:12 pm

    Vicki was my brother Danny’s and my Godmother. She never forgot our birthdays or to bring us something special out of the blue. She was wonderful to sit and talk to. Truly a loss for her family and our community.

  • Pat Walker Posted September 16, 2022 8:39 am

    To the children of Virginia. Thanks so much for trusting me to care for your Mom. She was more than someone I provided care for. She was my friend. And she taught me so much! I am grateful for the time I got to share with her. God Be With All of You.

  • Terri English Posted September 18, 2022 1:55 pm

    Mrs. Budka was one of my all-time favorite teachers!! Rest In Peace, Mrs. Budka.

  • Carolyn Mulick Posted September 27, 2022 9:06 pm

    So sorry to hear about your mom’s passing! I enjoyed working with her at St. Thomas More and teaching her children. Prayers for all of you!

  • Janet Stefanski Kohll Posted December 18, 2022 8:54 pm

    This is long overdue. I hope you see it. Mrs. Budka was one of my favorite teachers at STM. I was sorry to hear of her passing. My sympathies. I am making a donation to Goodfellows in her memory. G-d bless.

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